In today’s world we often hear terminology used to describe relationships which would have been hard to imagine just one generation ago. Phrases like swingers and open marriages along with hundreds of interchangeable variations of sexual and gender orientations make it nigh impossible for society to define the parameters of what IS and IS NOT morally acceptable behavior in a relationship. Fortunately for those who follow the teachings of Jesus Christ and the words of the Holy Bible, morality is a fixed mark, unmoved by the ever changing whims and fashions of this world.
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
The scriptures affirm in many locations that the marriage of a Man and Woman in Christ is considered an honorable union. The scriptures also warn the righteous to abstain from all forms of fornication which are uplifted in this present world. Too often we are taught that these sins are acceptable alternatives from the traditional and “restrictive” ordinances of God. But for those overtaken in these errors, the desire for acceptance will often cause them to justify their behavior by creating the groundwork for new social norms and the eradication of Biblical values.
In one recent example that has recently resurfaced on social media, Christina and Benno Kaiser explain the unique dilemma that ended their 12 year marriage. Some years into their marriage and after the birth of their three children, Christina confessed to her husband that she was bi-sexual and wanted to introduce a second woman into their relationship. Although the prospect of a “ménage troi” or threesome is a powerful sexual fantasy for many men, those who are armed with the discretion of the scriptures know that such acts are not prudent and strictly forbidden in scripture.
Leviticus 18:18 Neither shalt thou take a wife to her sister, to vex her, to uncover her nakedness, beside the other in her life time. (Wife to her sister – meaning, it is forbidden to have sexual relationships with two women at one time – not necessarily two biological sisters)
For Benno Kaiser, his wife’s indecent proposal was too tempting to pass up and soon afterwards 21-year Sierra Kuntz became the 3rd party in the relationship. The Kaisers claim that their bond was so strong with their new young lover that the decision was made to divorce, thus allowing one of them to legally marry Kuntz, giving her legal claim to their 3 children. This brings us to the final observation made concerning this farce of a marriage, the effects on the children. Although the children appear to be well adjusted in a household with 3 loving parents; the true harm is realized in how this arrangement will forever alter their understanding of what the Heavenly Father intended marriage to be.
Matthew 19:5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Benno Kaiser spoke concerning his children saying: “We had talked to our children before this and let them know we wanted to adopt someone and bring somebody into our relationship. Our children have been very supportive of this. They have understood,” he said.
One of the most important aspects of being a parent is to raise your children in the “Nurture and Admonition of the Lord”. In one of the greatest examples in the Bible we see the Heavenly Father speaking concerning his servant Abraham and the virtues of raising children in the laws of God.
Genesis 18:19 For I know him (Abraham), that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord, to do justice and judgment; that the Lord may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him.
It is our prayer that those who read this article would consider their ways and refrain from these wicked sexual perversions which are often readily accepted in today’s Satanic world.